Whole30 Friendly Coconut Almond "Cereal" ~ For the Love of My Carb-Craving Husband

Love can make a person do crazy things.  I'm talking crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy, crazy.

For example, agreeing to embark upon the Whole30 with your husband during the season where football, birthdays, and Halloween inspirations make the the diary-carb-sugar possibilities extra yummy.

{95%of husbands believe that muscle flexing will convince their wives to give up chocolate and cream in their coffee for an entire month.  Or something like that.}

As I was processing Steve's request to tackle this detachment-from-all-things-delicious-diet my pregnancy brain freaked out a little knowing that baby #7 loves to remind me of his/her presence with frequent bouts of nausea. If macaroni and cheese is the only food that sounds remotely edible at 3 a.m., then you eat the macaroni, right?

Just the thought of a slab of bacon or pound of raw hamburger staring at me like roadkill from the fridge did not have a positive effect on my gag reflex.

But, when the one you love has spent two years fighting Lyme Disease with little improvement, and he's desperately seeking a little relief from his symptoms, you don't think about macaroni or road-kill, you think about him and you say, YES.

Now, I've been through the Whole30 six times (thoughts on that here, here and here) and this is the third time partnering up with Steve. At the end of those 30 day experiences with him, I have the same conclusion about my husband: He will never, ever, ever, ever, never, give up grains.

He's just a meat and potatoes with a side of bread (like a loaf of bread) kind of guy.  And, lucky for him, his Usain Bolt metabolism can handle the same caloric intake as a horse. But, I do think the reduction of grains in his diet, helps tremendously with the inflammation in his joints.

Every night, since we've been married, he's either eaten a pb&j or a bowl of cereal before bed, but of course that's all a big no-no on this diet.  So, this time around, I thought that surely I could find a recipe that would resemble cereal in some way, and still be Whole30 approved.

Luckily, I found this recipe a few days ago, and after making a few alterations, asked Steve to give it a try. Judging by his reaction, I seriously think he fell in love with me all over again! 

If you're a lover of sugary cereals, this probably will not fulfill your every expectation for a bowl of nourishment, but since that's not the case for us, this cereal is more than satisfying.

Whadda ya pour on top?

We substitute canned coconut milk for regular milk, this is not the coconut milk in the refrigerated section (because of all of the fillers and additives, it is not Whole30 approved).

Tip: Pour a can of coconut milk into a glass jar with a tight fitting lid, add a couple of ice cubes and shake vigorously. After the milk and cream are combined, remove the ice cubes and store milk in the fridge until you're ready to use it.  A shaker bottle, the ones that come with the stainless steal ball whisk, work great, too.

Coconut Almond Cereal

{Printable Recipe}

- 1-7oz. bag (about 2 cups) of unsweetened coconut flakes {I like this brand}

- 1 cup sliced almonds

- Cinnamon (about a tablespoon)

- Nutmeg (about a teaspoon)

- Ginger (about a teaspoon)

- Salt (about 1/4 teaspoon)

Mix the almonds and coconut flakes together and spread out evenly on a rimmed baking sheet. Combine all of the spices together and sprinkle liberally over the top of the coconut/almond mixture.* Do not stir. Bake at 250 stirring after 5 minutes and every 2-3 minutes after until the coconut is lightly toasted. Watch it carefully, as the coconut can turn dark quickly.  Store in an air-tight container.

* Adjust the spices according to your own tastes.  For me, the more spices, the more flavorful the cereal, and most of the time, I don't measure, I just sprinkle away.  Just remember that nutmeg and ginger are very pungent, so I recommend using a significantly greater amount of cinnamon than nutmeg and ginger.

Our favorite toppings: sliced banana, fresh blueberries, sliced fresh strawberries, apple juice-sweetened, dried cranberries (in limited amounts).

The Whole30: Why I Say "Go For It!" {MMM Vol. 3}

How many of you woke up this morning and, after scrolling through your Facebook news feed, discovered yet another friend or relative sharing news of a particular illness or diagnosis that they are currently suffering from? Unfortunately, encountering news of illness or suffering among those around seems to be a part of our daily life.

Over the past 20 years, my own personal health struggles have motivated me to dig deeper into the relationship between the care and feeding of my body and the level of overall health I could achieve as a result of that care.  While I'm thankful for great doctors and modern advances in medicine, I believe there is a lot that I can do to help myself, things that will help keep me out of the doctors office and in a place of feeling and living a life of good health.

Nearly one year ago I received a bit of encouragement form my mom to try a detox/diet plan called the Whole30 to see if it would help my Firbromyalgia/Thyroid/Hormone issues. Of course there are all kinds of diet/detox plans out there that guarantee to do everything form help you loose weight to regrow your hair.  After reading extensively about the Whole30, I was convinced that it is not a diet, but a pathway toward clean eating that is meant to become a way of life (I do have my reservations about eating according to Whole30 guidelines for life, and I'll discuss those later)

I never did write a follow-up post on that experience, but I will say that the detox had such significant results, I went through it again a couple of months ago with my husband, hoping that it would help him feel better, too.

So, what is the Whole30? Well, some people would call it a diet, others a detox.  For me it's really a reset button for your gut, for your palate, and for your brain. By eliminating spedific foods from your diet, and embracing a menu of whole, unprocessed foods, your body (and your mind) enter into a process of healing.  In a nut-shell you eat lean meat, unlimited amounts of veggies, some fruit, some nuts, and healthy fats (full list of acceptable foods here.)  That means NO:

• Grains of any type 
• Sugar - even natural sugars such as honey or agave nectar
• Dairy
• White Potatoes
• Alcohol
• Sugar Substitutes
• Processed Foods 

I know, good times, right?? Sack cloth and ashes sound more appealing?? Are you developing a migraine just thinking about life without chocolate? Trust me, I feel your repulsion.

But....

What intrigued me most, after reading the Whole30 book, It Starts With Food, and scouring the Whole30 and Whole9 websites, was the feedback that had come from people like you and me who suffer from many common illnesses such as allergies and asthma to more severe conditions such as MS or cancer.  Their testimonies alone were encouragement enough for me to give this detox a go.

If you suffer from any type of inflammatory or auto immune illness, including (to name a few):

Arthritis        Chrone's Disease  

Fibromyalgia           Celiac Disease

Asthma          Dermatitis

IBS     Multiple Sclerosis

Diabetes        

I cannot encourage you enough to try the Whole30.

I'll be the first to say that this program is NOT easy by any means, especially for those who may not have a great fondness for veggies, since veggies make up the bulk of your daily diet.  The program was much easier for me than for my husband, Steve, but by the end of the 30 days, he had nearly forgotten about his former gravy laden, sugar coated life and was actually enjoying everything from brussels sprouts and parsnips to squash and kale!

Here's a little breakdown, in very general terms, of how our journey progressed from week to week:

Week 1: This is the time when you've got to be hard-headed and determined to stick with the program, because this is the week when you feel the worst.  Your mind and body are screaming at you to go back to your old ways of eating.  Carb deprivation is the worst part of the Whole30.  Your body just won't stop begging your mind for a muffin or piece of chocolate - they are literally at war.  As a result, you will probably feel very tired and a wee bit crabby this week. 

I don't recommend any vigorous exercise during the first week, or even through most of week 2.  Your body is going through a healing process, and you need to take your activities as slow as possible.

Week 2:  By now, your mind/body are starting to accept this new way of eating, but you may still be craving something more satisfying than a salad to eat.  This is when you have to dig in to the Whole30 recipe index, or seek out some really yummy Whole30 approved recipes online (Pinterest is very helpful). By the end of week 2, Steve and I both noticed that we were sleeping more soundly and waking up feeling more rested.

It was also during this week that my husband said he couldn't possibly even look at another egg for breakfast.  Well, some may call this cheating, but I broke out my muffin recipe, which includes only Whole30 approved ingredients and that helped both of us get through the next couple of weeks without cheating.

{Printable Recipe}

Week 3:  At this point, you really begin to feel the most common, yet significant benefits of the program, which include increased energy that remains steady throughout the course of the day, greater mental focus and concentration, brighter skin and eyes, balanced emotions/moods and fewer cravings for processed, sugary, flour-based foods.  

For me personally, this was the time when my digestive issues and achy joints and back pain had significantly diminished.  I was nearly pain-free!!  For Steve, he slept more soundly, completely stopped snoring, woke up energized and had greater stamina throughout the work day and during his workouts.

Week 4:  The home stretch! While I don't think Steve or I ever fully lost our affection for a nice glass of wine or sweet piece of chocolate, it was during this week that we realized our attachment to certain foods really had diminished.  We no longer craved our favorite comfort foods, and our palate's had shifted into a preference for fresher, whole foods.  It's a great feeling! In addition, every positive benefit we enjoyed during week 3, was only increased during week 4.

So, what do you do at the end of 30 days?? 

Well, a lot of folks roll right into the Paleo lifestyle and choose to follow those dietary guidelines for life.  Some go back to the old habits of eating, and loose the benefits of the Whole30 program almost instantly (yeah, I don't really recommend going out for a burger, fries and ice-cream as a way of celebrating completing the program. Your tummy will not love you for that!).  

The rest of us (including my husband and myself) go through the "re-introduction" guidelines set out in the Whole30 book, which is a process by which you re-introduce certain foods, one at a time, to see which ones your body can tolerate best without any negative side effects.  (This process is clearly outlined in the book It Starts With Food.)  

The results of the reintroduction phase for Steve was that he could easily tolerate dairy, but sugar and gluten-based grains made him feel tired and sluggish, and he returned to restless sleep patterns and snoring.  Rice, potatoes, quinoa and gluten free oats and legumes seem to have less of a negative effect on him.

After experiencing the Whole30 twice with great success, my current analysis is this:

ENCOURAGEMENTS:

1.  The Whole 30 is by far the most supportive, well-researched, sensible, care-fully lined out and guided approach to clean eating that I've found so far.  Nothing wacky here, just clean, whole foods in perfect proportion.

2.  If you have been searching for a healthy way to eliminate or at least reduce refined carbohydrate and sugar cravings and increase your cravings for healthier foods such as fruits and veggies, you will find success here.

3.  Before you begin the Whole 30, give yourself some time to prepare.  I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to:

• Schedule the program around a time when you will have as few interruptions to your diet as possible (vacations, holidays and work travel will make sticking to the plan difficult)
• Read first - understand why the Whole30 will help you feel and look healtier inside and out.  IF you understand the why,  it's easier to stick to the how. Honestly, just get the book.  I tried to do the program the first time without the book, and half-way through decided to order it.  I'm really glad I did. (This page also offers a host of helpful downloads to keep you informed along the way.)
• Go shopping (but take the Whole30 list with you).  Stock up on the items suggested on the list of acceptable foods, especially veggies, and clean out any tempting foods from your fridge or pantry.  Your neighbors and/or the local food bank will thank you!
• Make a folder of recipes and menu ideas.  I found the program to be the most strenuous when I had to throw together a last minute meal.  While I myself will eat pretty much anything meat and veggies in the simplest form, that's not the case for my meat and taters hubby.  Cooking tasty, satisfying food takes time and planning, so be prepared for that.
• Remember, if you cheat, you start over.  Did you know it takes around 30 days to completely flush gluten out of your system? So, if you dive into a donut on day 15, you begin again at day 1, not day 16.  If you're going for healing from an ailment, disease or illness, the success of this program really does depend on consistency.  If you're simply trying to achieve weight-loss, then okay, a donut won't blow your whole game, but mentally, it might set you back a few strides when it comes to your attachment to less healthy foods.
• Find a partner.  Going at this alone isn't impossible, I was able to do it the first time, but it really is much easier if you have a buddy at your side to help you through the difficult days and to share your success with as well.  Steve and I both said we could not have made it through successfully without each other!

4.  The positive results, if you follow the program with precision, are exactly as the founders of the Whole30 enthusiastically express them to be: reduced inflammation in the body, increased energy and stamina, brighter even glowing skin, greater mental focus, balanced moods/emotions, decrease in digestive issues (no bloating or gassiness after eating), regular and frequent bowel movements (this is a GOOD thing!), and for those who suffer joint/muscle or headache pain, relief in those areas as well.

5.  Food should always leave us feeling nourished and energized.  I didn't realize, until taking part in this program, that before making the Whole30 changes to my diet, even though I ate very healthy before, I often felt tired after snacks and meals.  The Whole30 foods left me feeling energized and satisfied.

If your idea of veggies is canned corn, peas and beans, this program will really stretch you to try a variety of veggies prepared in different ways.  Roasting veggies quickly became my husband's favorite way to eat them.  This is my go-to recipe (minus the white beans and parm cheese during the Whole30).  Finishing the veggies with balsamic vinegar and crumbled bacon makes them extra yummy!

CONCERNS:

1.  One of the reasons it has taken me so long to put this post together is because I wanted to do my research first.  Programs like the Whole30, which lead into the Paleo diet, are thought to be the best way of eating according to those who follow their guidelines.    I, however, don't believe that there is one best way for the entire population to eat.  Every person is different from blood-type to genetic make-up to ethnicity, and ALL of those factors play a part of which foods will best fuel and nourish our bodies.  Beware of any "be-all, end-all" diet.

2.  In It Starts With Food, the authors go into significant detail as to why grass-fed organic meats, especially beef, are assimilated by our bodies differently (in a better, healthier way) than commercial beef. Therefore, they only promote these types of meat for consumption on the diet.  The problem with that is that most of us cannot afford, or do not have access to organic, grass-fed meats in our local grocer, and shopping for them online or in specialty stores is expensive - especially if you're feeding a family.

3.  The elimination of entire food groups (particularly all grains), and having those food groups demonized by a particular dietary philosophy doesn't make sense to me.  I think it's important to be choosy about the grains we eat and the way that we prepare them, but to completely eliminate them from our diet may not be wise.  The same is true for beans and legumes (which aren't allowed on the Whole30), which can be a very healthy, economical part of anyone's diet.  If your body simply cannot tolerate grains or legumes, then you certainly have a case for removing them from your diet, but if your body accepts them without negative consequence (fatigue, bloating, allergies, aches etc.), they why not enjoy them in their purest form?

4.  With any zero-grain diet, I think it's easy for a heavy emphasis and satiation to be placed on protein. The danger (especially for men) is that the bulk of the diet too easily becomes favorable to meat, protein shakes or eggs instead of a variety of veggies, fruits.  While this make make a person appear to be healthy because it aids in weight loss, it most likely won't translate positively as to what's happening interiorly, specifically with the heart and other vital organs.

5.  This program is difficult (and expensive if you eat the meat, fish and eggs according to their standards) to sustain over a long period of time, especially if you have a large family.  That being said, I think there are aspects of the program that can easily be maintained and enjoyed for a life time.

Where has all of this left our family? Well, for one thing, it's cemented the importance of our already active pursuit for consuming a whole food diet.  Secondly, I have found that our pantry and fridge is less full of packaged foods, such as crackers and cereal (yes, even the healthy kind), and more full of nuts, nut butters, sprouted grains for baking, and a greater variety of fruits and veggies.  

Do we eat perfectly? Nope. Life is full of reasons to celebrate, and food is an important part of fanily life, culture, travel, fellowship and fun! We will always enjoy birthday cake, bake pies, devour pizza and fry up some chicken on occasion (don't forget the wine and beer!), but when clean, whole food eating makes up 80-90% of our diet, we all feel better. And even more importantly, we hope that the choices we make now will mean that our bodies will be stronger and healthier in the future!

Have you taken part in the Whole30 program? 

Please share your thoughts/experiences with us!

The Whole30: I'm Not Gonna Sugar Coat it...But I'd Like to.

There are three kinds of people in this world who decide that doing a dietary detox is a good idea:
1.  Crazy People.
2.  People who listen to their mothers.
3.  People who feel like crap and can't stand going to the doctor.

Lucky for me, I'm all three.  So, what's a detox you say?? Well, person #1 would call it dietary hell, #2 would say it's a process of ripping yourself away from beer and cupcakes in hopes that it might actually turn your mother-daughter chats into pleasantries instead of whiny-ass rants, and #3 would say it's cleansing your body of all the deliciously satisfying crap you have consumed over the years and losing your craving/desire for those foods in the process.

Sounds fun, doesn't it??

Why am I doing this detox thing?? Well, the thing is called the Whole30.  And, I'm doing it (Day 16, baby!!) because my mama thinks that I should.  Actually, that's only partially true.  Here's the whole truth:

Around Christmas, my mom asked me if I had ever heard of the Whole30 and then proceeded to tell me about a friend of hers who was cured of her chronic migraines after doing the detox.  "Awesome!" I said to myself while cracking open another beer and scanning the pantry for something salty.  Ever since I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia at the age of 19, I've been on a mission to stay as far away from prescriptifying doctors as possible, which has meant committing to a lifestyle of healthy eating and regular exercise.  But, I'm no dietary saint.  Beer, chips and chocolate are a necessary evil 'round here.

Okay, so the next time I saw my mom....AND the next 17 times we talked on the phone she asked me if I had read about the Whole30.  Sometimes, I just want to rant about how sucky it is that my adrenals, hormones and thyroid are on strike, they refuse to work, and because of that I'm doggy dog-tired, foggy brained, over-sensitive, achy all over and, well, we'll leave the symptom list at that.  But, no, my mom isn't just gonna let me rant, she is going to smack me with this Whole30 crap until I wake up and smell the suggestion.

Grrrrr.  With this nagging idea in the back of my mind, I grab a beer and park it with the laptop on the couch and Google "Whole30."  Long story short, I'm on day 16 and, dare I say, I'm starting to feel better?? Better as in more energetic, more reasonable, more cheerful, less bloated, less achy, well rested.....that's probably enough for now, I don't want to jinx it or anything.

If you want to, you can read all about the Whole30 here, but if you come away from their website thinking you might want to jump in on all this craziness, I recommend going all out and buying their book , It Starts With Food.  For me, this was really important because I needed to know exactly  WHY I was going to spend 30 days eliminating so many of the foods I enjoy from my diet.  That's right, try to wrap your sweet little head around:
NO Grains (N.O.N.E. none. Buh-bye wheat, rice, corn, and every crazy gluten-free grain too.)
NO Dairy (Not really a biggie for me, but wine and cheese night with the hub is not going to happen without cheese.  Or, wine. BumERRRRR!!!)
NO Alcohol (Please, a moment of silence.)
NO Sugar and NO Sugar Substitutes (Those healthy honey cookies and muffins?? OUT! Please pass the tissues.)
NO Legumes (Okay, no beans big deal right??  BUT did you forget about peanut butter - hello the mother of all snack-a-liciousness?? Major whammy.  Major.)

If you are clawing something right now just thinking about letting go of any or all of these foods, I feel your pain! But, it also may be an indicator that this detox may be good for you.  Eliminating the foods on their list from your diet (they believe) cleanses not only the body but also the mind from our psychological attachment to those foods.  I'll admit, I snickered a bit at that idea, because for years I've been trying to eat clean, and watch the amount of sugar that I consume.

WRONG.  I was WRONG.

Without going into too much depressing detail, I will say that detaching myself from even my pseudo-healthy diet hasn't been a cake-walk.  I thought going gluten free (which has, by the way, significantly improved my health) was a challenge, but the Whole30 makes that seem like a chocolate butter cream frosting cake walk.

What the heck is the point of this post??

Well, I was supposed to tell you why I'm doing the Whole30.  Did I cover that??
But, now, I think I'm gonna be my mama for a moment and say this to you:
I believe that the what we put into our bodies either nourishes it or hurts it.  Much of the food we eat today is not at the standard for nourishment that it should be, and much of the food that we LIKE to eat is more toxic (processed and chocked full of preservatives) that nutritious.  Soap-boxy, I know, but stay with me.  That being said...

If you are tired every day all the time, achy, moody, struggling to concentrate, battling high blood pressure, diabetes, arthritis, or any other health issues that keep you from living a full life, and you HATE going to the doctor and PAYING for drugs please consider the Whole30.  Go to the "Testimonials" and read, read, read about real people who have experienced the healing that can come from nourishing the body well.

This detox is requires commitment and focus and is not for those who like to have others tie their shoes for them.  Just a fair warning.  I've got 14 days to go, then I promise a full and thorough report of my own 30 days, just in case you need more convincing, encouragement or entertainment.

Whole30.  Read about it here.  If you cannot resist giving this thing a try, don't blame me, blame my mama.  She started this whole thing.

Love, Peace and Detox.

P.S. Please forgive the potty-talk.  I'm detoxing. It's a side effect.  Pray for me.